UnknownLast week was the late Fred Rogers’ birthday.  Though he needs no introduction, Mr. Rogers was a beloved television personality who hosted a popular children’s show called Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood on PBS for more than 30 years.  Even by the standards of children’s programming on PBS, Mr. Rogers’ show seemed impossibly wholesome.  Every episode began the same way: after Mr. Rogers entered his home, singing his theme song, “Won’t you be my neighbor?”, he changed into sneakers and a zippered cardigan (all of which were hand knitted by his mother).  During the course of the show, Rogers would earnestly talk to his audience, interview live guests, take field trips to places like bakeries, and visit the “Neighborhood of Make Believe.”  Fred Rogers was so wholesome that he made Sesame Street look like Homicide:Life on the Street.

Conventional wisdom dictates that even if Mr. Rogers resonated with young children, his good-hearted message and milquetoast persona would become stale when those children reached adolescence and adulthood.  Nevertheless, Fred Rogers remains one of the most universally beloved characters in television history.  This was profoundly evident last week, as various outlets on the Internet acknowledged his birthday.  When the Internet celebrates public figures, there are almost always a few naysayers who write vitriolic and cruel things in the comment sections of the articles about that person.  Yet even as I combed through comment sections (something I generally do not like doing), I was hard-pressed to find anything negative about Mr. Rogers.  His appeal transcends even a forum where people castigate videos of generous and selfless acts, like a police officer giving boots to a homeless person.  One commenter summarized it well by saying, “Fred Rogers has tamed the Internet.”

We might wonder why Mr. Rogers is so beloved.  Some, pointing to his anachronistic approach, might claim that people are attracted to him because he seems like a product of a bygone era and represents something we wish we could still be.  The problem with this analysis is that it idealizes the past (always dangerous) and ignores the fact that most people are mocked if they act like it is still 1953.  Others might point to his genuineness: Fred Rogers behaved the same on-screen as he did off-screen.  While this is certainly a quality that will earn people’s respect, it does not necessarily lead to admiration.  After all, someone who is a jerk in public and a jerk in private could also be respected for his genuineness.  Mr. Rogers’ appeal is far simpler and far deeper: Fred Rogers believed that his primary responsibility in this life was to love others.  He went through every step of his life believing that everyone deserves to be loved, no matter who they are or where they come from or what they have done.  He didn’t do this with an agenda in mind.  His love for other people was never conditioned on a desired response or behavior.  Mr. Rogers loved without the expectation of results.

There is no question in my mind that Fred Rogers’ love for other people was shaped by his faith in the God who loved to the point of death.  As a Presbyterian minister, Mr. Rogers understood the deep logic of the atonement, the deep logic of the cross, the deep logic of the events that we commemorate this week: God loved us so much that God became a human being who was willing to suffer and die on the cross, even though he had been abandoned by those closest to him.  This love was unconditional; Jesus did not say, “Never mind” and turn back after Peter’s denial.  God loves us with a self-emptying, self-giving love that has the power to transform the world.  As we meditate on the events of Holy Week, we are called to put this love into practice, to love our fellow human beings without any expectation of reward, and to see everyone in the world, regardless of who they are, as our neighbor.

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  1. I was born and raised near Pittsburgh, in one of the steel towns that surround the Burgh. My dad was a foreman at a US Steel products plant. Life was stark. When we would walk to school in the morning, the sky was orange at times from the blast furnaces. The river was so polluted that there were warning signs all along it. A lot of us kids had allergies and now, as adults, we have cancers and autoimmune diseases.

    We were just kids but we knew all about strikes, collective bargaining and concessions and what that meant for our families. Everyone held their breath when plant closings were announced. It was weird — when we saw someone’s father home during the day, we immediately thought there was a layoff or strike, not that he may be on vacation. That tension always bubbled below the surface.

    Enter Mister Rogers. He was soothing and reassuring. He was a constant who ended every show with the promise to return the next day. And he did. He also took kids away to the neighborhood of make-believe. I know how important it was to escape for a time. I did so through books.

    He did see his show as an extension of his ministry. He provided an oasis of safety, reliability and gentleness in a rough world. He had a sense of humor, too. He reportedly enjoyed Eddie Murphy’s parody “Mr. Robinson’s Neighborhood” on SNL. It is very, very funny.

    I once volunteered at WQED’s pledge drive and we got to see Mr. Rogers’ set. Oddly, the neighborhood of make-believe seemed more interesting in person than it looked on TV.

    Mister Rogers ministered to my generation — kids whose lives were affected by economic instability and divorce and whose first president of memory was Nixon. It’s a shame that kids today don’t have that soothing presence.

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